It's official. I'm on my way to becoming an Army wife. Yes, we are getting married. I plan on moving out to Seattle sometime this spring hopefully and we begin our lives together. This makes us sooo happy because we can now spend more time together and grow as a couple. We know sometimes it might be hard, but we'll get through it. We've gotten through 2 years apart and 3 deployments, right?? It's going to be amazing to see him every day (except when he deploys). I feel like I can't get out there soon enough. Of course, he has some stuff to do in the meantime and so it's not really a good time for me to move right away, but I will when he's back.
I think about all the stuff we have a head of us- house hunting, the wedding, babies. Yes, babies eventually and we want several! It's so exciting and so much to think about! We'd like to try and get a house before he leaves again so that I can settle in and personalize it, keeping me busy while he's away but we'll see. We hope to get married before he leaves. Of course, my parents don't like the idea because they think we should have a nice long engagement, time to prepare and plan. I'm thinking that he's going to deploy and I'm going to be in a new place, a new state all the way across the country and no real ties to him. Not that being married will make things easier, but it will, for me. For me, I'll be able to go on post, I'd have health insurance, get any support I need from the military. Plus if we do buy a house or if we're in the middle of doing so, I can help out when he leaves. If we're not married, that won't happen.
Then there's there girls. I look forward to being there, around others going through what I am. It's kinda difficult being here where no one really realizes what we're going through. At least with them we all can relate and support each other.
Overall, I'm just lucky to have him. I love him so much and can't wait to be with him forever!
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